Monday, February 13, 2012

Live a more "Secretive" life....

Noooooo not like that! The Secret is a new way of life for many people. A new more positive outlook on everything. It is based on the law of attraction and claims that positive thinking can create life-changing results such as increased wealth, health, and happiness. The Secret states that desirable outcomes such as health, wealth, and happiness can be attracted simply by changing one’s thoughts and feelings. For example, if a person wanted a new car, by thinking about the new car, having positive and thankful feelings about the car as if it were already attained and opening one's life in tangible ways for a new car to be acquired (for example, test driving the new car, or making sure no one parks in the space where the new car would arrive) and the law of attraction would rearrange events to make it possible for the car to manifest in the person’s life.

I know you are thinking it sounds so far fetched but what could hurt about leading a more positive life? Here is a visualization tool found on http://thesecret.tv.


What do you think? How did it make you feel?


Here is a great example of a daily message you can sign up for on the website above:

A Secret Scrolls message from Rhonda Byrne
Creator of The Secret and The Power 

"How do I stop my negative thoughts?" - is a question that I have been asked many times. If you have ever asked this question then you will feel such enormous relief in knowing the answer, because it is so simple. How do you stop negative thoughts? You plant good thoughts!
When you try to stop negative thoughts, you are focusing on what you don't want - negative thoughts - and you will attract an abundance of them. They can never disappear if you are focused on them. The "stop" part is irrelevant - the negative thoughts are your focus. It doesn't matter if you are trying to stop negative thoughts or control them or push them away, the result is the same. Your focus is on negative thoughts, and by the law of attraction you are inviting more of them to you.
The truth is always simple and it is always easy. To stop negative thoughts, just plant good thoughts! Deliberately plant good thoughts! You plant good thoughts by making it a daily practice to appreciate all the things in your day. Appreciate your health, your car, your home, your family, your job, your friends, your surroundings, your meals, your pets, and the magnificent beauty of the day. Compliment, praise, and give thanks to all things. Every time you say "Thank you" it is a good thought! As you plant more and more good thoughts, the negative thoughts will be wiped out. Why? Because your focus is on good thoughts, and what you focus on you attract.
So don't give any attention to negative thoughts. Don't worry about them. If any come, make light of them, shrug them off, and let them be your reminder to deliberately think more good thoughts now.
The more good thoughts you can plant in a day, the faster your life will be utterly transformed into all good. If you spend only one day speaking of good things and saying "Thank you" at every single opportunity, you will not believe your tomorrow. Deliberately thinking good thoughts is exactly like planting seeds. As you think good thoughts you are planting good seeds inside you, and the Universe will transform those seeds into a garden of paradise.

Thursday, February 9, 2012

How NOT To Become A Victim Of Crime!


Personal safety is everyone’s business! 

No-one wants to ever think that they might become a victim of a crime, but, denying the possibility may sometimes put you at greater risk also. In order to be safe, you have to prepare and prevent. Preparation and prevention is always better than reaction! It is more effective and preferable to prevent a problem from occurring in the first place rather than having to deal with a problem once it occurs. Undeniably, crime is a concern for all of us. However, you CAN lessen your risk of becoming a victim! The following information, while not all-inclusive, will provide valuable suggestions in regard to making yourself and your family safer. Nothing is 100% effective. However, well-learned and utilized safety tips will certainly improve your opportunity to Live Safely!

Safety In General

• Wherever you are, always stay alert and be aware of your surroundings.
• When entering the front doors swipe your "fob" and pull the door instead of hitting the handicapped button. The doors will stay open for a shorter amount of time, which will reduce the number of people able to follow you in.  
• Don't look like a victim. Walk tall with your head up. Project an air of confidence as you walk and speak to persons.
• Trust your instincts. If something, or someone, makes you uncomfortable, avoid the person or leave the area. Listening to "your gut instinct" can help you avoid becoming a victim of a violent crime. Like Mark Buckley at the Lowell Police Department said to us, "If it walks like a duck and looks like a duck, it's probably a duck!"


When You Are Walking
• Stay on well-traveled streets and well-lit streets. Avoid taking a shortcut through wooded areas, parking lots, or dark dangerous alleys to be safe.
• Don't flash large amounts of cash or other tempting targets like expensive jewelry or clothing that draws attention.
• Carry your purse close to your body, not dangling by the lengthy straps. Put your wallet in an inside coat or front pants pocket, not a back pocket..
• If you think someone is following you, switch direction and look at the person. They will be less likely to attack you if you can identify them. Walk toward an open store, restaurant, or lighted house, any place where there are people.

When Driving
• Look under and around your car as you approach and check the interior and back seat of your car before entering.
• Always know where you are going and the best way to get there without having to stop and ask strangers for directions.
• Make sure you have enough gas to get where you're going and back.
• Always roll up the windows and lock car doors, even if you're coming right back. Check inside and out before getting in.
• Avoid parking in isolated areas. Be especially alert in lots and underground parking garages. Always park in a well lighted, heavily traveled area.
• If you think you are being followed, don't head home. Drive to the nearest police or fire station, gas station, or other open business to get help.
• Don't pick up hitchhikers when you are driving and only accept rides from people you know and trust.
• When you're stopped at a light or stop sign, leave enough space to pull around the vehicle in front of you. An easy way to gauge this is to stop your car so that you can still see the rear tires of the car in front of you touching the pavement. If anyone approaches your vehicle in a threatening manner, you will have enough room to pull out safely and get away.
• Beware of the "bump and rob." It works like this: A car rear ends, or bumps you in traffic. You get out to check the damage and the driver or one of the passengers jumps into your car and drives off. Look around before you get out; make sure other cars or around. If you feel uneasy, stay in the car and insist on moving to a busy place or police station. Call the police right away.

Also When Driving - Road Rage Many motorists become victims every day because of "road rage." Many drivers get angry when someone cuts them off or tailgates them. A lot of drivers get angry at slow drivers. Violent incidents on the road recorded by police have increased more than 50 percent over the last five years. The following are some tips to avoid becoming involved in a "road rage" confrontation.

WHAT IS SUSPICIOUS?
"Am I witnessing a crime?" Most of us have found ourselves wondering this at some time or other. However, because we are not really sure, we tend to ignore what we have just seen and, hoping it wasn't so, we continue about our business. Together as a community we can make Lofts at Perkins Park a safer community.



"PEOPLE AREN'T SUSPICIOUS, BEHAVIOR IS!"
Signs and behavior to look for that may be suspicious:
  • A person running.
  • A person going door-to-door in an building or a residential area.
  • Any person forcibly entering a locked vehicle.
  • Business transactions being conducted from a vehicle.
  • One or more persons sitting in a parked car exhibiting suspicious behavior.
  • A juvenile or female being forced into a vehicle.
  • A person exhibiting unusual mental or physical symptoms. 

Please call the Lowell Police Non-Emergency line if you see anything or anyone suspicious (978) 973-3200.  Also, in the event of an emergency always remember to dial 911! We want your experience here at the Lofts at Perkins Park to be as enjoyable and safe as possible. With just a small amount of effort and awareness we can make this happen!



Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Winter blues got you down?

Do the winter blues have you down? Are you completely broke from the holidays? Well have no fear! We at Lofts at Perkins Park have been researching some fun and possibly free ways to beat those cold melancholy days!

The year is young and Boston and Lowell are full of fun things to do without spending much if at all. Check out our suggestions for how to keep busy this winter while keeping your wallet full.

Williams-Sonoma celebrity chef series

At this free event, visitors don't just watch favorite local chefs like Matt Gaudet from Aquitaine and Gordon Hamersley from Hamersley's Bistro give demonstrations on their signature dishes -- they get to eat the results.
100 Huntington Ave #C9, Boston. 617-262-3080. 

Wine and beer tasting

Unwind after a long week at work with wine and beer tastings every Friday night at Ball Square Fine Wines and Liquors. On Jan. 20 the Somerville shop will be offering a selection of French and Italian wines to sample.
4:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m., 716 Broadway, Somerville. 617-623-9500. 


Cambridge winter farmer's market

Summer may be long gone but the Cambridge farmer's market is just beginning, with fresh food, art, and music every Saturday. Expect to find vendors like Jordan Brothers Seafood, Taza Chocolate, and Big Sky Bakery as well as music performances and food demos.
10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Cambridge Community Center, Callender St., Cambridge. 781-302-4835. 


Public open night at the Coit Observatory

Got stars in your eyes? Pick out your favorite constellations at the Coit Observatory at Boston University, which offers free stargazing Wednesdays after 7:30 p.m. throughout the fall and winter, pending clear skies.
725 Commonwealth Ave., Boston. 617-353-2630. bu.edu

Jan. 22: Boston food swap

The Boston food swap, held at Space with a Soul, is essentially a potluck of epic proportions. Bring homemade and homegrown foodstuffs to swap for other items made or grown by locals, like baked goods, jam, spreads, and local eggs.
2 p.m. to 5 p.m., 281 Summer St., Boston. 

February 9-11th: Lowell WinterFest

Families from around New England can celebrate the wonders of winter at Lowell’s Annual Winterfest Celebration. Festivities include live entertainment, arts & crafts, kids activities, outdoor ice skating, soup bowl competition and the crowd favorite – the National Human Dogsled Championship, weather permitting.

Enjoy free ice skating, face painting, magic shows, tundra rides, fireworks and paling around with the lovable Lowla Bear. The Lowell Winterfest also includes crafts, live entertainment, a soup bowl competition and the crowd pleasing favorite – the National Human Dogsled Championships. A free shuttle will transport visitors between sites.